Appearing
in Court
Depending upon the circumstances of your child support case,
you may be required to appear in court. This may seem intimidating,
but is an important part of the child support process. The
following information will help you prepare for your court
appearance and should lessen any unnecessary anxiety you might
feel regarding your hearing.
Before the Hearing:
- Contact your child support officer and make sure you have
the correct date, time and location of the hearing.
- Write down what you want to tell the Commissioner at
the hearing. Make it as brief as possible, staying focused
on the issues in question.
- Bring with you to court all documents that might help
you prove your side of the case, and make three copies of
each.
- If possible, make arrangements for your children to stay
with someone while you are in court.
At the Hearing:
- Arrive a few minutes early, and remember to give yourself
plenty of time to find the courthouse, locate parking, etc.
- Dress and act in a professional manner.
- When your case is first called, stand and let the Commissioner
know you are in the courtroom.
- Be sure to turn off your cell phone, pager, etc. before
entering the courtroom. If you need to answer your cell
phone, step outside the courtroom to do so.
- Step outside of the courtroom to carry on any conversations
with companions or your attorney.
When Your Case is Called for Hearing:
- Come forward to the tables in front of the Commissioner.
Both you and the other party should sit at the table on
the right. Sit on the far left side of the table if you
are the person requesting child support or the far right
side of the table if you are the other parent.
- Wait until the Commissioner addresses you before you speak.
- Never make remarks to the other party. Always address
your comments to the Commissioner.
- Never argue with or interrupt the other party. Remember,
you will be given a chance to respond.
- When presenting your side of the case, be as brief and
to the point as possible. It is less confusing for everyone
and helps the Commissioner focus on the issues you are presenting.
- Do not argue with or interrupt the Commissioner. It will
not help you, and might hurt your case.
- Always address the Commissioner as “Your Honor”.
- When you present your case, tell the Commissioner about
any document you want the court to consider, and hand it
to the Department of Child Support Services Attorney. He
or she will review it, and then hand it to the bailiff
to give to the Commissioner. Do not attempt to approach
the Commissioner yourself.
- If you have a question after the Commissioner has made
a decision, you can address the court by saying something
like, “Excuse me, Your Honor, I have a question”,
and you will be given the opportunity to speak.
- Try not to be nervous when you appear in court. Just
remember to be polite, stick to the issues at hand, and
avoid interrupting or making any remarks to the other party/parent.
Important
Things to Remember:
- The amount of child support a person must pay is not
random. There is a mathematical formula (a “guideline”)
that is used to determine how much a person must pay. California
law states that the Commissioner must follow the guideline
formula except under very specific conditions that can be
found in California
Family Code section 4057. These specific conditions
do not apply to most child support cases.
- The guideline formula is based on a number of factors,
including, but not limited to:
- Custody and visitation time
- Wages and salaries of both parties
- Tax filing status of both parties and number of exemptions
claimed
- Other types and amounts of income of the parties
- Child support paid for children of other relationships
- Number of children from other relationships in either
home
- It is important for each party to remember that the state
of California has said, by law, that:
- A parent’s first and principal obligation is
to support his or her minor children according to the
parent’s circumstances and station in life
- Both parents are mutually responsible for the support
of their children
- The guideline formula seeks to place the interests
of children as the state’s highest priority
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