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Types Of Domestic Violence

Types of Abuse

Domestic Violence can occur in different forms of abuse.

  • Physical - Hitting, slapping, kicking, shoving, pushing, shaking, biting and pinching.

  • Verbal / Emotional - Constant criticism, making humiliating remarks / name calling, ignoring what the victim is saying, mocking, yelling, interrupting, swearing, threats / intimidation, emotional withholding and degrading the victim.

  • Sexual - Forcing sex on an unwilling partner, demanding sexual acts, forcing uncomfortable sex, criticizing sexual ability.

  • Isolation - Keeping the victim from seeing family or friends, monitoring phone calls, reading mail and restricting victim's movements.

  • Financial - Not paying the bills, refusing to buy food / necessities for the victim and / or family, not letting the victim have money or not letting the victim work.

  • Coercion - Threatening the victim into decisions, manipulating children and other family members, always insisting on being right, making up impossible "rules" and punishing the victim and children for breaking them, self-destructive behavior, making the victim feel guilty.

  • Harassment/ Stalking - Following or stalking, constantly checking up on the victim, multiple telephone calls and visits, and refusing to leave when asked.


Why do battered women stay?

  • Denial
  • Love
  • Children
  • Dependence
  • Hope of change
  • Financial
  • Isolation
  • Culture
  • Religion
  • Status
  • Language barriers
  • Pride
  • Low self-esteem
  • Fear of retaliation
  • Loneliness

 

 







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