Types of Abuse
Domestic Violence can occur in different forms of abuse.
- Physical - Hitting, slapping, kicking, shoving, pushing,
shaking, biting and pinching.
- Verbal / Emotional - Constant criticism, making humiliating
remarks / name calling, ignoring what the victim is saying, mocking,
yelling, interrupting, swearing, threats / intimidation, emotional
withholding and degrading the victim.
- Sexual - Forcing sex on an unwilling partner, demanding
sexual acts, forcing uncomfortable sex, criticizing sexual ability.
- Isolation - Keeping the victim from seeing family or
friends, monitoring phone calls, reading mail and restricting
victim's movements.
- Financial - Not paying the bills, refusing to buy food
/ necessities for the victim and / or family, not letting the
victim have money or not letting the victim work.
- Coercion - Threatening the victim into decisions, manipulating
children and other family members, always insisting on being right,
making up impossible "rules" and punishing the victim
and children for breaking them, self-destructive behavior, making
the victim feel guilty.
- Harassment/ Stalking - Following or stalking, constantly
checking up on the victim, multiple telephone calls and visits,
and refusing to leave when asked.
Why do battered women stay?
- Denial
- Love
- Children
- Dependence
- Hope of change
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- Financial
- Isolation
- Culture
- Religion
- Status
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- Language barriers
- Pride
- Low self-esteem
- Fear of retaliation
- Loneliness
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